May 23 2025 Pancake Marathon
- May 23
- 5 min read
If with (parentheses and slanted) = it is to just for an easier read
You may think that there are a thousand different things being done in recovery, really there's just a thousand different ways of saying a few simple things.
As I realized the level of self-care that I like: as I say I like in a matter of truly taking care of myself such: getting massages that I was a month off of/simply to say, so it was within this that as you will see yesterday I did not complete as my daily thing; and so essentially today I would like to talk about boundaries.
now as I was talking To my massage therapist about boundaries, I brought up that you know batteries are always healthy and you only truly need to say “ boundaries or unhealthy boundaries;” they were a little confused: because they did not have the context how I was approaching it, so I communicated what that was and at the same time I seen that I was overcomplicating it in a way of trying to simplify it.
now what I mean by overcomplicating it is because yes to me boundaries: are always healthy and so when clarifying it from my experience that unhealthy batteries: are batteries that were healthy but you didn't stick to them, now that's because I've been DV( domestic violence: as that of the three-fold kind: physical, mental/emotional, verbal); but simply to say you know there is a fine line of over complicating something: as I put this into context the best way that I can in the simple way of saying that boundaries per say would be the category same as self-care / as then you have how you can interact within that category: such as boundaries, by are they healthy or unhealthy boundaries.
it's also within my experience it's always about the context of the language (
be that of the jargon/ filled/ way we are approaching it/So essentially the context to how we get to the definition or that of the words of the definition…..
for example fridge: once we comprehend that of the word fridge and we've been taught it then we can go to any simple setup of a house
and be the first time there
and be asked to put something in the fridge
and then we know exactly how to do it.)
This also brings up to me that of
once you learn something you forget how to learn it
because you already know it
this is where empathy and compassion come into play
and by simple comprehension of in recovery aspects of what I'm touching on here
Is that no one could God shame somebody
no one can truly tell somebody that the way they comprehend the god of their understanding is wrong
now everyone can defend themselves
but going off of tradition 4 through 6
it really doesn't matter in the sense of itself of if they want recovery then they want it
it doesn't matter how much you give to somebody if they don't want it
yes you get to keep it if you give it away
for you can always lead a horse to water but you can't make a drink
because that is you practicing the principles and all your affairs
being a leader a trusted servant
within the ultimate goal of caring a message and trying to
yes as a clever way of saying oh you can make it drink
but it not might not drowned in that moment
but it still might get ammonia and then die.
As it simply comes to the point though, that now I comprehend that slogan “ that this is a complicated program for simple people: lol, in truth it says this is a simple program for complicated people;” as so untrue that's what it is, that we all can live life and yet how do we find Unity when we communicate in a healthy way?
Topic
healthy communication: I see that I'm good at communicating: when you see that everyone has a different level of communication but we all communicate, as it's true that it is up to me how I choose to communicate: as will it be healthy in a sense of bringing Unity or will it bring forth a sense of addiction ( learning from the teacher/ lesson, when I can love and Trust again); in truth it is always up to me how I communicate: for within someone's lack of communication does not give me the right to communicate in an unhealthy way: that's what brings up to me as you know Q-tip ( quit taking it personally) halt ( if I'm/ don't get to: hungry angry lonely tired).
How: Honest Open willing
For maybe “how,” is “what,” to you or is your “why;” but how will you do it?
Why: welcoming home yourself
What: Wonder How About today?
But it's about finding your why/what (Purpose) through how (efforts) you are going to do it.
healthy communication:
Honesty👀
I see that I'm good at communicating: when you see that everyone has a different level of communication but we all communicate,
Open-mindedness👀
as it's true that it is up to me how I choose to communicate: as will it be healthy in a sense of bringing Unity or will it bring forth a sense of addiction ( learning from the teacher/ lesson, when I can love and Trust again);
Willingness 👀
in truth it is always up to me how I communicate: for within someone's lack of communication does not give me the right to communicate in an unhealthy way: that's what brings up to me as you know Q-tip ( quit taking it personally) halt ( if I'm/ don't get to: hungry angry lonely tired).
APS: Acronyms (bold) / Principles (italic) / Slogans (underlined)
Slogans are wisdom written in shorthand and Acronyms are just the sum/the Virtues, of all that wisdom: When In Self, Discover Our Motives
Life is full of life and yes life gets life-y sometimes, its within that moments when we see that we are getting to that point of “having to again,” its up to us to let go and let god; for its only within that moment when we have that power to do something about it (As it's true we can only control those that we can forgive/ have expectations for) And sometimes that power is to just try.
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